Words, whether spoken or signed, are the basic means by which people communicate. Words are powerful tools that can affirm and empower. At the same time, the misuse of words can belittle and demean. Language used to describe people with disabilities often focuses on lack of ability rather than on competency. Age-old terms such as “deaf and dumb,” “invalid,” or “idiot” continue to be used despite their disrespectful tone and the inaccurate message they portray.
When writing or speaking about people with disabilities, words should be chosen with care in order to promote dignity and a positive image. The following suggestions, adapted from guidelines developed by Paraquad, Inc., and The Research and Training Center on Independent Living, may assist in this process:
The following terms should be avoided because they have negative connotations and evoke pity:
| Words with Dignity | Words to Avoid |
| Person with a Disability, disabled | Crippled, handicapped, invalid (literally, invalid means "not valid") |
| Person who has, person who experienced, person with | Victim, afflicted with or by |
| Non-disabled
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Normal (referring to non-disabled people as normal insinuates that people with disabilities are not normal |
| Uses a wheelchair | Restricted or confined to a wheelchair, wheelchair bound (the chair enables mobility), wheelchair person |
| Deaf, nonverbal | Deaf mute, deaf and dumb, dummy |
| Disabled since birth, born with | |
| Emotional disorder, mental illness | Crazy, insane, mental case, psycho |
| Has a physical disability of spinal curvature | Deformed, misshapen, hunchbacked |
| Has multiple or severe disabilities | Vegetable, creature, freak |
| Person with mental retardation | Retard, idiot |